A bride needs to be magnanimous all throughout the day of her wedding, even during the times wherein she isn’t really feeling like it. When your wedding photographer Cheshire flashes a camera at you, make it a point to smile. Eventually, it is going to feel like a bit of a chore but then again, you just really need to remind yourself what the day is all about in the first place and what you should be looking into when you are trying to pose for the camera. Be courteous to all people, especially to the ones who have been trying to help you out the most during the wedding. They will really appreciate the gesture. If you are having a tough time trying to get things together, the same thing goes with your wedding vendors.
Being kind and polite to them will help make the job a lot easier so try to go out of your way to really get that checked out or done one way or the other. It would mean all the difference in the world but more than that, it would mean all the difference to you given that it is your disposition and your state of mind that is at stake. Don’t allow the petty things to upset you right off the bat. If there is anything that tends to irritate you, try to breeze by it and smile through it. A wedding is all about love and families coming together, after all. Make sure that you don’t lose that thought and you should be fine.
Stay poised during the speeches.
There will be guests who might go overboard and who might end up overstepping their bounds when they are giving out speeches. Some of these speeches might be embarrassing and a tad bit too inappropriate. You still need to make sure that you have grace under pressure. Smile and don’t throw a fit. Don’t let one guest ruin the rest of the day for you. Once you look back, you will laugh about it and it will be funny memory so try to sweep that up under the rug while you can; at least until it doesn’t make you feel like you want to strangle the person who made the inappropriate speech anymore. You want your wedding photographer Cheshire to capture you as someone who is both demure and regal and he can’t do that if you are throwing dagger looks at the person making a speech.
Give a couple’s thank you speech.
Make it a joint effort. This isn’t just about you, after all. This is about you and your partner and the life that you have decided to build together. Make sure that your guests know and understand how thankful you are for all their help as well as for their presence. It can really make quite an impact at the end of the day.
Go slow with the alcohol.
You don’t want to be drunk during the night of your wedding. Alcohol makes the memory go fuzzy and you want yours to be crystal clear so that you can look back fondly on those memories as time goes by.